Moving On

When you're trying to move on, you are always stuck in the phase of denial. You're thinking a lot of what ifs. Like 

* What if he still likes me

* What if he's just waiting for me to beep him up

* What if he's waiting for the right time to talk to me

And when you try to block him you're gonna think 

* What if he's been sending me messages and im not receiving anything because hes in blocked mode

* What if hes thinking that im ignoring him but infact im waiting for his message

* What if he sent me an invite to somewhere and i did not receive it because of my kaartehan

Or what if he just dont care anymore? Right? 

And when you do try to unblock him and still you're not receiving anything then that's like a double K.O. to your umaasang heart. Right?

So what's the best thing to do? STOP THINKING!

If you've been hurt or got dumped by Mr.Wrong then just stop thinking about him already! Forget the good times with him, the fun night together, the steamy sessions, the "i'll make your bed rock" convo, the sweet surprises, the little efforts etc. 

Just try to not think about him and try not to make a big deal in everything that reminds you of him. Just shrug it off and deadma.🤗 And please do block him. It's not that you're a coward by blocking him, it's a big step in moving on. You can unblock him when you feel that you totally moved on. And don't you ever stalk him using other account that you've made. It's just pathetic.😅 Just be firm of what you really want to happen and stick to it.

Remember you're the girl, don't make him hurt you again. Love yourself.😄

***a good tip!

* Focus on what you love

* Travel (if you have the time and money)

* Spend your time with your loved ones

* Hug your loved ones when you're feeling sad

* Exercise!

* Clean! (Put your anger and loneliness to good use.)

* Focus on yourself

* Get a makeover!

* Eat what you love

* Go shopping!

* Go clubbing with friends

* Meet and Flirt (just don't get into a rush-relationship)

* Enjoy the single life!💁