Not all relationships lead to a happy ending. ....for some, isang bitter ending ang kinakahantungan.
Lahat naman kasi nang relationship e dumadaan sa mga trials. Mahirap and masakit. Both partners has their own 'maling napapansin' sa relationship, mapa-decisions, topics, attitude, lahat!
But you know what i learned? ..
It's okay pa pala if the relationship is puno nang misunderstandings and away kasi by that, it means na nagke-care pa sila. Kesa sa hindi kana pinapansin, di na sya natatawa sa mga jokes mo, di na sya nagko-comment sa mga decisions mo etc.. kasi ibig sabihin nun, wala na syang pake. you're partner doesn't care anymore.
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Change is always scary but it can also be very positive. Before you decide to break things off take one last long and honest look at your relationship. Ask yourself these:
- Do you wish things could be different or are you sure that a break up is the only solution?
- Do you have any desire to keep things together?
- Are you holding back because you fear you are making a mistake or because you fear being alone?
Only you can know for sure what the right thing to do is but when a relationship is so full of dissatisfaction or resentment, sticking around may lead to regret.
It is always better to end a relationship while things are still civil and there are still some positive feelings left than it is to hang in to the bitter end.
